tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-550984997213939656.post808323574909797198..comments2024-03-15T00:09:38.427-04:00Comments on Isn't She Lovely: Lamely heavyJana Burrowhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07661070303089465262noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-550984997213939656.post-35367977204320959312010-10-07T20:50:09.751-04:002010-10-07T20:50:09.751-04:00I never realized that so many people chose not to ...I never realized that so many people chose not to vaccinate until I became a Pre-K teacher. And that was 10 years ago, so I can only imagine that that number has greatly increased. With three kids, I feel like I've researched EVERY childhood issue on Google, but sadly, vaccines is not one of them. Maybe I'm naive, but this is one issue that I (shockingly!) don't worry about. And I worry about a lot :) <br />But I think it's like any other issue. You have to do what is best for your child and your family. My friend and I have had this conversation about guns -- when your kids start going over to play at other people's houses, do you ask them if they have guns and if so are they locked up? There is just so much to think about and honestly, I think you just do the best that you can and PRAY that your child grows up relatively healthy and happy :)Sarahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01125177310383897261noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-550984997213939656.post-40279038967802069582010-10-07T15:16:03.763-04:002010-10-07T15:16:03.763-04:00This is Sonja...I have a google account but long a...This is Sonja...I have a google account but long ago forgot it.<br />Anywho, like you this is a concern for me. My children are also fully vaccinated (I am a big believer in Mass Immunization) but we have come in contact with playmates that are not or at the very least are delaying them.<br />Like a previous comment I think you need to do what is right for you and your littles and if that means just asking a blunt question like "Do y'all vaccinate?" or more subtle like "How did your Little react to the MMR?", then you just do it.<br />Vaccinating IS a hot topic and therefore it isn't outside of the realm of typical mother talk to bring them up.<br />Once you have the info you can process as you wish and go from there. <br />For myself, I always seem to find out without causing drama. I do know of one family that is delaying ANY and ALL shots until an older age (which honestly doesn't make sense...if you are going to comply with the law so your kid can attend school why wait so you have to REALLY bunch them up?) and I have limited our contact with them to outside venues only. And I just make sure that hands are washed and cups aren't shared.<br /><br />And really...for the diseases we vaccinate is there much of an incubation period? I never thought of that...I always just assumed that if the Little gets sick then everyone would know...<br /><br />Hope you and Katie can figure something out!<br />SonjaAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-550984997213939656.post-38318868371695381962010-10-05T18:29:33.816-04:002010-10-05T18:29:33.816-04:00You said it yourself, Jana.This isn't like bre...You said it yourself, Jana.This isn't like breast feeding or bottle feeding. However, I figure you pretty much know who's vaccinating their children and who's not. The bottom line is Lila, but you already know that. Had you not had her vaccinated, would you be offended if someone didn't want their child(ren) to be around her? Would you be offended if they ASKED you about vaccinations? If so, then that's your problem and not theirs. If not, then you're giving them the respect they deserve. It's a choice whether to vaccinate or not. I get that. But you don't risk your child's life or health because you're afraid you might offend someone. Their personal choice is not to vaccinate. Your personal choice is to vaccinate for the PURPOSE of avoiding disease. If they can't understand that you don't want to then turn around and subject your child to their potential disease, then you should probably steer clear of them anyway!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-550984997213939656.post-60719253607542206562010-10-05T13:50:53.805-04:002010-10-05T13:50:53.805-04:00I sympathize with you. That's a difficult conv...I sympathize with you. That's a difficult conversation to have with a friend. There has been a recent outbreak of pertussis in Cobb County. I don't think many people understand that these diseases are still with us and the very young are the most likely to have life threatening symptoms.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-550984997213939656.post-19160552458338313832010-10-05T10:09:09.790-04:002010-10-05T10:09:09.790-04:00You just do the best you can. It’s so tricky to s...You just do the best you can. It’s so tricky to say to a friend, “I love your child. I love you, but I’m not comfortable with our kids playing together until mine is fully immunized at age 5.” Nothing personal, but like you said, we all have to do what we feel is best for our own family, even if it’s keeping our kids apart. Brandon laughs at me for being so germaphobic in public, but the recent outbreaks of measles & whooping cough in the US freak me out! I definitely did not see this parenting obstacle coming!KBBeanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00508703958617732209noreply@blogger.com